hi if i disallow same sex try for baby is the male not gonna be able to become pregnant with an ailien if he gets abducted?

I believe that will have no impact. Alien abduction pregnancy is not a result of romantic encounters no matter what definitions we have in mind for "romance," this is the insertion of an unborn baby with no genetic connection to the human sim with the human male to act as a surrogate through delivery. I don't think that Woohooer would have any say in such activities as no one is really woohooing or Trying for Baby here.

If there is a way within this mod collection to prevent alien abduction pregnancies, I believe it would have to be found within Retuner.

I can confirm for sure that it will have no impact. Even if you turn off pregnancy being allowed for a specific Sim, that specific Sim can still get alien-pregnant. I know because it's happened to me. When I have a male/male couple and allow male/male pregnancy, I'll usually designate just one of the couple as the one who can carry the babies because they tend to spawn too much too quickly for my likings when they can both get pregnant. In those cases, the non-carrier ones have still gotten alien-pregnant from time to time. So, it's apparent to me that the game doesn't see alien pregnancy as a pregnancy at all, so no mods affecting pregnancy will affect it.

With Retuner you can stop alien abduction see the members retuner tuning list and search page via browser search for alien
Members-Retuner-Settings

For stopping the chance of the alien "pregnancy" buff

Retuner/ by xml/ sims3.gameplay.ActorSystems/ BuffAbducted
and change the percentage.

Retuner -> Settings -> General -> Tunable XML -> Sims3.Gameplay.ActorSystems -> AlienUtils
kAlienHouseholdVisitChanceOffspring = set to zero.

There's other settings in htere where you can turn off or decrease % chance of visists all together

mctosh I don't know why you double the answers, when you may look on the page Members-Retuner-Settings

You will find all options there by searching term "alien". This is also the place where eventually "new " ones can be added to have everything in one place (unfortunately I don't know how we can add something there again).

F.i. if you search Google by using nraas Retuner alien you will get the Members Retuner Settings page on the top.

well excuse me for being helpful, i do humbly apologize and in future i won't be so helpful i promise
why force people to sit around searching for stuff all day and figuring things out when you can just tell them how to do it, i did it myself so already knew by heart how to do it.
didn't know helping people was so offensive here, noted for future reference. feel free to delete my account!

Ahem. Now then, this is how that conversation should have gone.

"Hey, that one looks like a great addition to the Retuner settings we already have documented here (link). Does it really make a difference in your game?"

"Yes, it sure does!"

"Okay, then why not add it to the wiki page or ask an Organizer to do it for you so that other players using that resource can see it?"

"Yep, good idea. I will do that."

See, the same information can be conveyed without all the attitude. I'll just lock this thread up for now.