I’ve noticed that extremely irresistable show me less options in the romantic menu than the previous stage (forgor what it’s called). Not sure what option could be behind this. However, I do have ”remove romance on kiss” set to true and ”show in romantic menu” to false. But that should only apply to ”ask sign, ask if single, consider attractivenes” etc I’m fairly sure.

Can't say I've noticed this, but who knows. Sims are fickle. One thing you can do to poke at the issue a bit further is bring the Short Term Context (STC) between two sims up to Extremely Irresistable, pause the game, and switch on Woohoor's debugging utility. That should cause all of the otherwise available menu commands to show, with the currently unavailable ones greyed out and a tool tip appearing above them when you mouse over telling the reason.

NRaas > Woohooer > Debugging > True
(be sure to switch this back to False before resuming gameplay or else the mod will tie up resources generating debugging logs that no one really needs to see)

igazor, Thanks for the response! It didn’t really tell me much. However, I found something interesting.

At first I realized that it didnt occur between all relationships which made me realize that when sims who are romantic interest it works like intended (all romantic options available when extremely irresistable). So I figured hmm maybe it’s something about the ”remove romance on kiss” well yes and no. If you keep ”remove romance on kiss” to false you dont really experience this issue since well you will kiss to reach the ”extremely irresistable” and therefore all options will be available since you automatically become romantic interests.

Well, thats one solution but I just thought I would test out whether ”show interactions under romance” had anything to do with it. And lo and behold (no idea if thats the correct) when it’s kept at ”true” all romantic options between, non-romantic interest partners remain available.

I dont use a lot of mods other than a a handful of tuning files and the rest are bug fix/lag fix mods. So I dont believe its a conflict (but I might be wrong), but my conclusion is that when ”show interactions under romance = false” and ”remove romance on kiss = true” there becomes an issue that sims who have an ”extremely irresistable” conversation but lacks the ”romantic interest” required to get there (due to turning it off) the options remove themselves somehow.

This was just 30 minutes of testing my research might be a bit off. However, as a work around right now the best option would be to if you want to remove romance on kiss then keep interactions in romance to true and vice versa.

Im still not 100% sure about this, since its hard to have a controlled environment you know with all factors considered. Cause sometimes it doesnt always apply and seems like woohooing and massage might still trigger all options to appear even if theyre not romantic so the results are not really conclusive.