so I am writing a sim as transfem, i know there are same-sex options in woohooer, but is there one that *only* allows that specific sim those? as in I do not want it to just work with every same-sex couple, but I want that specific sim to be able to impregnate? If not are there any (SFW!) mods that can enable it per sim? I am not very comfortable tapping into the deep grounds on woohoo mods as I am extremely uncomfy with nsfw in the game due to personal reasons, but I do want to be able to have this story going

Even a mod that allows me to have same-sex couples to create a baby with ITF would help, as even that requires heteronormative couples which makes no sense bc its supposed to be a so high tech future world

I'd like to know the same. Maybe you could make a caste for that specific sim (maybe castes for transmasc and transfem sims in general, for futureproofing) and change their options as desired (as described in the Caste FAQ)? I don't actually know if this would work since I haven't tried it yet, though.

I've tried making those castes with priority 1000 (so it takes priority over the conflicts with regular male/female castes) and the allow participation/pregnancy options swapped as appropriate. Doesn't seem to work for active households, might possibly work for inactive households in story progression though? Not familiar enough with the system to say for sure (I only just downloaded the mod yesterday). But might be worth giving a try.

You can assign the caste manually on a specific sim (do not enable automatic).