I played a single sim for a few weeks before she finally became married. While she was single she did not get a single phone call for a date, but the moment she got married the phone calls asking her out on a date started (alot). Is there a setting in the NRaas mods that will cut those phone calls down to a minimum? While I'm on this subject, is there a setting that will let my single sim actually receive phone calls for dates?

I dont know about Nraas mod that would be able to do it, perhaps retuner. However, I believe its connected to the attraction system, if your sim and another find each other attractive they might call about dates later on.

What you could do is get the retuned attraction mod, which first makes attraction more selecting and depending on which flavor it can get very hard to reach the specific threshhold which would create those phone calls. IIRC it also lowers the amount of times you would need to reject a sim before they stop calling, but not entirely sure about that. Unfortunately I dont know if the setting can be specified for relationship status, but the retuned attraction mod has the "purity" option which basically makes it so that faithfully married couples dont feel attraction to other sims which should stop those phone calls I guess, but cant confirm.

Returner is able to deal with this

NRaas \ Retuner \ Settings \ General \ By Tunable XML \ Sims3.Gameplay.Socializing \ AttractionNPCBehaviorController"

kAttractionPhoneCallChance
kAttractionGiftLetterMaxChancePerDay
kAttractionDateRejectThreshold value

set the first to 0 and the last to 1, this will dissable the calls and if some will come you need rejects only one time. If you set the letters to 0, you will not get anymore lover letters.

Thank you.

@hal2003 , thanks alot
Retuner is life saver lol

I believe this is also connected to online dating. You're given a dating profile by default, but you can remove it using the computer or phone.

I'd love to mod this system to only include inactives who might reasonably be likely to have an online dating profile -- e.g. sims who are actually single or have Commitment Issues. I'm sure if it were easy, someone would already have done it. Heh.