I used this setting in hopes that the message that pops up of sim behaving inappropriately would stop:
From City Hall or any Computer > NRaas > Retuner > Settings > General > Social Interactions > Accuse of inpropriety> I set everything to false and ages to none.
But I still get the messages popping up and my sims is being send out of the house?

Hello budewarmin .. It's a little lengthy but we had a discussion in a thread for this type of behavior. Take a look at Thread Earlier This Month. Make sure to click on the Hidden posts. There are some tuning suggestions and links for more tuning options.

Thanks brappl