i used copy between categories, but it put it in as the second outfit. i went to stylist, but there was no option to delete the first outfit. how do i get their copied clothing to become their default outfit for that category?

With Mastercontroller (+ cheats Modul)
Sim - Basic - Remove Outfit
MasterController-Interactions#Remove-Outfit

After you copied the outfit between categories -> you need to change into this new second one and then you can delete the first outfit.

When you copy an outfit between categories it will always be added.

I think with stylist is the same.
You need to change into the new outfit first and then go into MC stylist (if I remember right) to delete the other,
but the MC remove option is the faster way
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