I got to get me that mod. These notices and the damn date calls drive me crazy. I Stopped a lot of it by changing the SP settings to like 1% chance that a sim will flirt with someone partnered but it doesn't stop the love letters.


What's the dismiss command?

The love letters, attraction gifts, random calls for dates, and the initial attraction scenario (handled by a different mod by Shimrod if one wants) are not controlled by SP because these are not SP-driven flirts. They are coming from the game itself by way of the patch that was released alongside of Seasons. And yes, one or more of these things annoyed the heck out of most of us until we modded out the ones we don't like.

I've kept the initial attraction scenario things in play though. They really don't mean very much and are often kind of funny (when in the mood to be so amused).

The MC command to dismiss all notices is under the Town category, IIRC.

If you want, here is the path: NRaas \ Retuner \ Settings \ General \ By Tunable XML \ Sims3.Gameplay.Socializing \ AttractionNPCBehaviorController. Then change the fields kAttractionPhoneCallChance value to 0 and kAttractionGiftLetterMaxChancePerDay value to 0, and kAttractionGiftLetterMaxChancePerDay to 0. This should turn all of that off. Now, if I could get the romantic interest notices to be turned off that would be great!